About Ester
I could make anything happen, except love
Until I found the path. From single at 37 to married to my soulmate.
I’m Ester Fried, soulmate coach and creator of the Five Keys Method. I help successful single women find the love they’re meant for, on purpose.
Computer Engineer◆Certified Professional Coach (iPEC)◆Energy Leadership Index Master Practitioner◆Spiritual Mentor
My story starts in Venezuela
I grew up with challenges that taught me early how to persevere. At 21, with a Computer Engineering degree and about a thousand dollars to my name, I moved to America on my own.
I threw myself into personal development: Tony Robbins, more books than I can count, and years studying the subconscious mind.
I built a successful career in the ultra-competitive world of Manhattan real estate. I knew how to set a goal and reach it. I did it over and over.
Except in love.
For twelve years, love was the one goal I couldn’t reach
I dated. I hoped. I tried the apps, the books, and the advice from everyone who had an opinion. I even went to therapy, convinced something must be wrong with me.
I couldn’t understand it. How could I achieve everything I set my mind to, and not this?
Then, at 35, I found spirituality, and everything I thought I knew about love turned upside down.
For the first time, I saw it clearly: love isn’t luck. It’s a path. There’s a process, there are keys that unlock it, and there are real ways to know whether you’re moving toward it or away from it.
It changed my career too. I left real estate, trained as a Certified Professional Coach, and by 36 I was coaching full time, helping other people transform their lives.
Knowing the path and walking it are two different things
My own love life didn’t change overnight. I got engaged, and then he called it off. My heart broke in a way I didn’t know was possible.
But this time, I didn’t fall apart. I had the tools. And in the middle of that pain, I found the missing piece.
That March, I met my husband. In October, seven months later, we were married.
Today we’ve been married eight years and have two beautiful children. The fulfillment I spent twelve years chasing, I finally created.
It wasn’t luck. It was the path.
Eight years and two kids later
Then came the program
At 38, newly married and pregnant with my first child, I created From Single to True Love so other women wouldn’t have to spend years figuring out what took me so long.
Since then I’ve walked this path with women in English and in Spanish. My own years of being single, everything I studied, and everything I learned from them distilled into five keys. I call it the Five Keys Method, and it’s the heart of the program today.
Choose◆Uproot◆Tune◆Give◆Observe
It’s spiritual and deeply practical. No waiting, no hoping, no wondering whether it’s working. There’s a path, there are steps, and there’s a way to measure your results.
Women who walked this path
Happily married to my soulmate for 2 years now, and so thankful I found Ester’s program.
— Emily F.
Just after a month in her program my life changed. I finally broke through a repetitive relationship pattern I’d had my entire life. Ester’s program works!
— Allison A.
From Single to True Love has been by far the best investment I have ever made for myself. I’m super fulfilled, and soon to be engaged!
— Emma R.
We all deserve to be happy. Including you
Today I work with successful single women who are ready for marriage. Women who’ve built beautiful lives and know their person is out there. Women who are done waiting for someday.
Your person is out there. Let’s go find him.